Uplifting Tuesday-Sisterly/Brotherly Love


White grandmother is embraced by black congregation at Christ the Cornerstone Community Church

By DIANE JENNINGS / The Dallas Morning News  


When Marie Meggs walked into Christ the Cornerstone Community Church in 2006, Pastor Otis Adams was surprised. Elderly white women don’t drop by black churches often, and he assumed her first visit would be her last.

“It’s just not normal,” says the pastor of the DeSoto church. “Sunday is still the most segregated hour. … Many times white people will come and once they recognize that it’s a predominately African American church, then some won’t even finish the service. And those who do, we never see them again.”

Deacon Alfred Johnson gave Marie Meggs a hug on Sunday at Christ the Cornerstone Community Church in DeSoto. Meggs, 94, joined the church in 2006 and is one of two white members. The church plans to name a fellowship hall in her honor next month.

But four years later Meggs, 94, is such a cherished member of the congregation, the church is naming its new fellowship hall after her next month.

“She’s become the mother of the church,” says Adams, explaining the decision to honor Meggs. “It’s not just simply her age, it’s not because she’s of another race, but her impact on the church.”

Meggs, whose energy and stylish appearance belie her years, tears up when talking about her church home and the honor it’s bestowing on her.

“I have only belonged to four churches and there’s more love here,” she observes while waiting for her Life Enrichment Sunday school class to start. “When they love the Lord, they love the Lord.”

Sitting in a small classroom or the larger sanctuary at the DeSoto church, the great-great-grandmother is like a pearl nestled in black velvet. One other white person has joined the church since she did, but everyone else in the congregation, which numbers about 75 families, is black.

Meggs began attending Christ the Cornerstone, a Baptist church, after her previous church sold its building and moved to Midlothian. Members of her old church offered to give her a ride to the new location. Or she could have attended other predominantly white churches in the neighborhood.

But Meggs chose Christ the Cornerstone because she knew some members, including Adams’ wife, from the time the two congregations shared a building.

“We would meet in the hallway sometime or in the parking lot on the way to our cars,” Ann Adams says. When Meggs’ church moved, “I was hoping and praying that she would seriously consider coming with us.”

Though the situation is unusual, no one treats Meggs like an oddity. “They just took me in like I was one of them,” Meggs says. “It didn’t make any difference if I was white. They thought as much of me as they did their own people and they treated me as such. They just loved me.”

Warm welcome

Meggs lives independently in her own home. And she still drives.

She pulls up to the church in a small gray Toyota Echo about 30 minutes before Sunday morning services. An usher hustles out of the church to open her car door. Someone else carries her Bible and a third person lends her an arm to lean on.

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